The third part in our Finding Purpose series is developing your core. I am referring to your character core, who you are as a person, or who you perceive yourself to be.
As with our bodies, the trunk of a tree is the core to its strength and ability to bounce back when the storms of life try to knock it over.
To work on your core, answer these questions:
- How do you describe yourself?
- How do people describe you?
- Is there a difference?
- Why do you think that is?
- Write those words on the trunk of the oak tree you have already begun. If you want to start from the beginning of this process, visit my previous posts, You are Awesome! and then Root Values.
Remember not all of your characteristics will be positive. Maybe there are some you want to work on, especially if they are characteristics others have described you with. As someone in my last workshop said, “I am stubborn or at least my kids say I am.”
Being stubborn may be seen as negative, but it can also be a positive. If some words cause a reaction, journal about why you are seen that way, and whether you want to change or nurture it.
Keep going! This is important and you have to do the work to find the purpose!
Great journaling and let me know how it goes!